In practice, loneliness is just an another program, the illusion of freedom. The dependence of comfort to be alone, thinking: I am so cool, that I need no one. It's great to be self-sufficient, but this vision is not self-sufficiency. This is just a mind games. Love does not make us dependent. The mind invents dependence in order not to violate pleasing habitat to it. Love has no limits, it is clean and endless as the Creator himself. He is love itself. And we are direct manifestation of it. Of course, everyone has his own story. However, you can exist under the scheme of so-called freelove as much as you like. But when it comes to a really strong feeling that is not subject to the logic chains, this is where the fun begins. Because it is always not included in the plans of the mind.